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I'm 23 now; In the BDSM lifestyle for four- almost five years now. I am a 24/7 slave with a wonderful Daddy/fiancee: who is artcomet.blogspot.com. But as you will see in this blog are the emotions that I go through each and every day- in and out of the lifestyle. This is to show how much I've grown and bonded with my Daddy, how I've dealt with 'the world", and how I dealt with people in the BDSM lifestyle; Enjoy.

May 9, 2011

What BDSM means to me: Part Two

What is etiquette?

Google Dictionary:
1.The customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group.

Dictionary.com:
1.conventional requirements as to social behavior; proprieties of conduct as established in any class or community or for any occasion.
2.a prescribed or accepted code of usage in matters of ceremony, as at a court or in official or other formal observances.
3.the code of ethical behavior regarding professional practice or action among the members of a profession in their dealings with each other: medical etiquette.

What are the rules of etiquette?

well for me, be polite at first and if someone wants to Dom or own me, then the gloves are off. Other then that, I will say the Dom/Domme ID(in chats) with caps and be very polite and obey if they do not want us to chat in a room for a while.Most Dom/Domme's i've talked too are online, and so why i put this as an answer. Never met another Dom/Domme in real life.

What is respect?

Google Dictionary:
1.Admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
2.Have due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of.
3.Avoid harming or interfering with.
4.Agree to recognize and abide by (a legal requirement)

Dictionary.com:
1.a particular, detail, or point (usually preceded by in ): to differ in some respect.
2.relation or reference: inquiries with respect to a route.
3.esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability:

What is punishment?

Google dictionary:
1.The infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offense.
2.The penalty inflicted.
3.Rough treatment or handling inflicted on or suffered by a person or thing.

Dictionary.com
1.the act of punishing.
2.the fact of being punished, as for an offense or fault.
3.a penalty inflicted for an offense, fault, etc.

Also punishment is what you get when you have done something wrong, and need to be taught the right way.

What is reward?

Google Dictionary:
1.Make a gift of something to (someone) in recognition of their services, efforts, or achievements.
2.Show one's appreciation of (an action or quality) by making a gift.
3.Receive what one deserves.

Dictionary.com
1.a sum of money offered for the detection or capture of a criminal, the recovery of lost or stolen property, etc.
2.something given or received in return or recompense for service, merit, hardship, etc.

Is something you get when you have behaved correctly, listening to orders and know what you are suppose to do. Sorta like a treat, to show that you have been good and it is something that you like.Example-SadoMasochism-clawing back.

what is "soft" and "hard" limits?

Soft limits is something you wouldnt normally do, unless you are forced to do it.
Hard limits is something you will never ever do.

Examples- soft, obeying a Domme. Hard, animals.

what are types of rewards?
depends on each sub/slave. Mine are, clawing back,vampire kisses,pleasure(sexual),watching movies i want to see and eating what i want to eat.Are some rewards i get when i behave.

why do I punish?
becaue you care and love me and want to correct my mistakes. Also because I pushed your buttons and went a bit far and need to teach me, my lesson.

Why do I reward?
Because i have behaved well and want to show me that i have been good. Also because you think i deserve to have a reward.

What am I expecting from you?
To learn from my mistakes and not to redo them. Also to grow/mold to what you want me to be. To have wisdom and that God should be frist in my life, then you. Aslo to keep your rules and be faithful, loyal to you and only you.

Define honesty,loyalty,obedience,trust,openness, and truth.

Google Dictionary-Honesty
1.The quality of being honest.
Dictionary.com
1.the quality or fact of being honest; uprightness and fairness.
2.truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness.
3.freedom from deceit or fraud.

Loyalty-Google Dictionary
1.The quality of being loyal to someone or something.
2.A strong feeling of support or allegiance.
Dictionary.com
1.the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations.
2.faithful adherence to a sovereign, government, leader, cause, etc.
3.an example or instance of faithfulness, adherence, or the like: a man with fierce loyalties.

Obedience-Google Dictionary
1.Compliance with someone's wishes or orders or acknowledgment of their authority.
2.Submission to a law or rule.
3.Observance of a monastic rule.
Dictionary.com
1.the state or quality of being obedient.
2.the act or practice of obeying; dutiful or submissive compliance.
3.a sphere of authority or jurisdiction, especially ecclesiastical.

Trust-Google Dictionary
1.Firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something.
2.Acceptance of the truth of a statement without evidence or investigation.
3.The state of being responsible for someone or something.
4.A person or duty for which one has responsibility.
5.A hope or expectation.
6.Confidence placed in a person by making that person the nominal owner of property.
7.An arrangement whereby property is held in such a way.
Dictionary.com
1.reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.
2.confident expectation of something; hope.
3.confidence in the certainty of future payment for property or goods received; credit: to sell merchandise on trust.

Openness-google dictionary
no definitions for this.
Dictionary.com
1.not closed or barred at the time, as a doorway by a door, a window by a sash, or a gateway by a gate: to leave the windows open at night.
2.(of a door, gate, window sash, or the like) set so as to permit passage through the opening it can be used to close.
3.having no means of closing or barring: an open portico.

openness in my mind is being open to anything and exploring new things.

truth-google dictionary
1.The quality or state of being true.
2.That which is true or in accordance with fact or reality.
3.A fact or belief that is accepted as true.
Dictionary.com
1.the true or actual state of a matter: He tried to find out the truth.
2.conformity with fact or reality; verity: the truth of a statement.
3.a verified or indisputable fact, proposition, principle, or the like: mathematical truths.

What is control?

google dictionary
1.The power to influence or direct people's behavior or the course of events.
2.The power to restrain something, esp. one's own emotions or actions
Dictionary.com
1.to exercise restraint or direction over; dominate; command.
2.to hold in check; curb: to control a horse; to control one's emotions.

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