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I'm 23 now; In the BDSM lifestyle for four- almost five years now. I am a 24/7 slave with a wonderful Daddy/fiancee: who is artcomet.blogspot.com. But as you will see in this blog are the emotions that I go through each and every day- in and out of the lifestyle. This is to show how much I've grown and bonded with my Daddy, how I've dealt with 'the world", and how I dealt with people in the BDSM lifestyle; Enjoy.

April 15, 2012

Someone asking if the lifestyle is a club or not......

anuya:ur user name is diff
anuya:wat does tat mean
me:Im an owned slave in the BDSM lifestyle and my Daddy/fiancee gave me the nick name water nymph of how much i love water
anuya:so wat is tis slave
anuya:like sex slave
anuya:i cant understand
me:no im not a sex slave. Im a domestic slave while doing S and M
im in the BDSm lifestyle
anuya:sorry i dont knw abt bdsm life style
me:BDSM is Bondage,Discipline,Sadistic and Masochism... it is a power exchange lifestyle
anuya:do u want to be join some club for it ah
me:not a club, it's a lifestyle
me:a way of living
anuya:so then hw long u r living tis life style
me:almost five years now
anuya:oh k k

Well i was talking to a nice person on wire club for once. He is from India, so he didn't understand my id name at all, but asked politely what it meant. So i told him, and he still didn't understand it. Now, he sorta went a bit cliche with it, but i let it slide as he asked nicely. 

So i went a bit into it. And from there asked if it was a club. Now I've noticed a lot of people in India who talk to me, always ask if it is a club or cult. And again, i had to say, no it's not. It's a way of life... even though others in this lifestyle will not agree at all. I still wonder why they think its a club or a cult, when there are people there who are in the lifestyle. I guess it is more hush hush than here. Well anyways, enjoy and Until next time.....


  1. A good practice is to alternate roles with your partner - first you dominate, then give them a turn in the boss's seat. Or, if one of you has quite a controlling or dominating job in ordinary life, swap roles for your bedroom play. domina profesional barcelona

    1. Yea, but this is not a game. This is a lifestyle and for some of it, its not just bedroom play. But i understand what you mean, if you are in this type of stuff, and want to be a kinkster about it, then go ahead and do that. What im trying to get at, its not a club at all, its a lifestyle and a way of life for U/us. Thanks for the comment though. :) Ashpea